Help???

The number one question that we have been asked is what we need help with? I wish I knew!!! This has been so incredibly difficult for all of us. We are dealing with it in different ways. The only thing I can think of right now is we need prayers!!!!

The other thing I hear is, I don't know how you dealing with this and still have a smile on your face? The answer for that one is easy. If I don't smile, I will cry. I smile because I am doing the very best I can. I smile because I learned a long time ago that life goes on and dwelling on it doesn't make it any better. I smile because even as hard as this is right now its not forever. I smile because as bad as it is it can always be worse.I smile because my kids need to know it is okay to still be happy and have fun. And I smile because all of my kids need to know that it is going to be okay!!!! And when I smile, they know I am okay so they can be okay too. If I don't protect all of them and their childhood's who will? I am the Mom and that is what we do. At the same time I let them know that it is okay to cry, and to be sad. They need to know that we are sad and that we have to cry sometimes. One day at a time, I say that a lot. I really do believe that we will get through this, one day at a time.